{"id":694,"date":"2014-09-17T16:29:02","date_gmt":"2014-09-17T20:29:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/redchairblogs.wpengine.com\/holymoly\/?p=694"},"modified":"2014-09-18T11:57:23","modified_gmt":"2014-09-18T15:57:23","slug":"a-mothers-musings-on-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.lynchburg.edu\/holymoly\/2014\/09\/17\/a-mothers-musings-on-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"A Mother’s Musings on Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Musings<\/a>This past Saturday I experienced one of the most profound events of my life \u2013 the first of my three children\u2019s marriage. Zachary, our second son, wed Molly, the love of his life. As a chaplain I probably officiate at almost a dozen weddings a year, but none have come close to the celebration of one of my own. I was overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and the sense of joy that permeated each moment of the weekend. While not every member of Zach and Molly\u2019s extended families could attend, those that did traveled at great sacrifice of time and resources and did so willingly and wholeheartedly. Friends from as far away as Seattle made the trek in support of the newlyweds, and memories were shared even as new friendships were formed as everyone gathered together.<\/p>\n

When the time for the mother and son dance arrived during the reception, I found myself even more emotional and sentimental than I had imagined. As the words to \u201cForever Young\u201d serenaded our movements, I thanked Zach for the man he had become and the new daughter he had brought into our lives. In welcoming Molly into our family, we were gifted with a new community of her loved ones as well. Love shared is multiplied a hundred times over at a wedding.<\/p>\n

I was also touched by Zach and Molly\u2019s decision to invite guests to consider making a donation to Equality Virginia which believes in a truly inclusive Commonwealth where all are equally welcomed and valued, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. I believe it took both courage and compassion for them to publicly witness their support of this organization, and I applaud their decision. As stated in a display at the wedding venue and later in Molly\u2019s Facebook post, \u201cZach and I also believe that everyone should be able to marry the person they love in the home where they live.\u201d<\/p>\n

Commitment and partnership, faithfulness and devotion can be experienced in many ways outside of marriage to be sure, and not all are called to live as Zach and Molly have chosen to live. But I hope that their example and the witness of others like them who profess unconditional love and care for another might inspire each of us in our own relationships and within our own communities.<\/p>\n

As families of every shape and size gather for this upcoming Parents and Family weekend, I offer a New Zealand prayer used at Zach and Molly\u2019s wedding and slightly adapted:<\/p>\n

Blessed One,<\/em>
\nWe thank you for families<\/em>
\nAnd for everything parents and children have to share:<\/em>
\nBy your Spirit of peace draw them together<\/em>
\nAnd help them be true friends to one another.<\/em>
\nLet your love surround them and your care protect them\u2026..Amen.<\/em><\/p>\n

Peace, Anne<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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